Today,
as Kenmore Wellington finally finished unpacking all of the clothes from New
Hampshire Rainbow’s Grand Assembly, we reflected on the adventures shared with
my sisters in another state. Visiting Grand Assemblies in other states is
terrific, because we have never felt more welcomed anywhere else we’ve been
(well, okay, the staff in Disney are pretty great too). New Hampshire Rainbow
treated my family and me as one of their own, and I am incredibly appreciative
of their great hospitality.
Kenmore
Wellington had expected that this would be a nerve-wracking experience, because
it was the first time visiting an out-of –state Grand Assembly as the mascot of
the Grand Worthy Advisor. That meant that all eyes would be on Rebecca as she
took her place at the podium to share remarks on behalf of Massachusetts
Rainbow Girls. But then I saw something that filled me with confidence and gave
my words true meaning. I saw all of the friendly faces of my Massachusetts
Rainbow sisters who had also come to see what Grand Assembly was like in
another state. It was then that Rebecca and I realized that I was speaking as a
representative for my state, and that thought filled me with immense pride.
This
weekend, much was learned by watching Jennifer Messina preside over her Grand
Assembly for the final time as Grand Worthy Advisor. She did a wonderful job by
inspiring her members to have confidence in themselves and “open their stage
doors,” which complimented her Broadway theme. Seeing how close Jennifer was
with all of her Grand Officers and Grand Representatives was impressionable.
Kenmore
Wellington is meeting many friends of the various jurisdictions, which included
Connecticut, Vermont, New York, Rhode Island, and Maryland. Our GWA owners
shared the plans they each had made for their own Grand Assembly sessions and
discovered that, even though they all came from different places, one thing
they shared as leaders of their organizations was that they all had an intense
interest in making Grand Assembly special for their officers and members.
This
weekend reinforced what I had always considered to be my purpose in becoming a
leader: to be a voice for all of my Rainbow sisters who had great ideas for our
organization. People aren’t always heard, and their suggestions can go
unrecognized. And it is my job to make sure that that doesn’t happen.
By
coincidence, we happened to watch “The Princess Diaries” immediately after
getting home from New Hampshire. I remember watching this movie for the first
time when I was about seven years old, and remember liking it, yet not being
overly impressed. Now, though, I have found new meaning in the speech that Mia
gives at the very end of the movie. She has been debating whether or not she
wants to accept her role as Princess of Genovia, because she has always tried
to blend in and focus on her own interests without attracting attention (even
if she has something to say). Her best friend Lily, on the other hand, tries
without success to lobby for a number of causes. Lily explains that she is very
jealous that Mia has the opportunity to affect great change. Yet Mia is
conflicted because she doesn’t want the kind of attention that she would
receive as a leader. Finally, as she is about to renounce her title, she
realizes that her decision cannot be based solely on what she wants for her
future. She explains that she only ever thinks about herself, and that this is
a terrible way to live. She resolves to be an advocate for others, and takes
courage from those who rely on her.
This
is what being a leader is all about: not only having a voice, but saying and
standing up for what is right for those around you. Kenmore and I learned a lot
this weekend, and we are very thankful for the opportunity to travel and learn.
We also look forward to attending more Grand Assemblies this year and seeing
the great impact that my fellow Grand Worthy Advisors have had on their states.
My
next port of call is Kenmore Wellington’s residence in cabin 18 at Rainbow
Camp, so it’s time to re-pack our bags.
What
is the tea selection today? Glitter and Gold from David’s Tea!
And
in my imagination, we are drinking it with Julie Andrews, a.k.a Queen Clarisse
Renaldi of Genovia.
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